I don’t really know how to handle this case cos its becoming a huge problem between me & my wife. I have tried to play it to the best of my knowledge but the situation is not getting in anyway better.
I & dayo have been friends for more than 15yrs. We grew up together those days in Ibadan and fortunately, we attended the same university to study different courses. We were in the same faculty of Engineering but different department.
The university I attended is without school accommodation, so we got an apartment close to eachother & sometimes he comes to my place & I go there too.
He loves Beans a lot back then and he happens 2 b a good cook. So most times, I visited him cos of the beans, laced up with Gari egba @ night.
However, we graduated & I was posted to delta state while he went to IMo state. Even at that, he comes to my place. I served in an oil & Gas company and we had enough money to spend.
I used to give him enough money those days cos he was given just a small allawe which cnt take care of all his needs.
After our youth service, I was retained & he moved to the uk for his masters courtesy of the little money I made during my service year.
After 3yrs, I moved too curtesy of him & he helped with part of the bills cos he was working and studying then.
He got married and after about a year I got to uk and I did mine too almost immediately.
But lately, I have been having issues with my wife over the closeness between me & dayo. we have a free calls to ourselves on O2 network. So we talk virtually everyday for more than two hour after work. And weekends,like saturdays, we move from weekend free landline to landline call to skype.
Just yesterday my wife warned me to desist from such altitude or face divorce.
Please, I need decent people in the house to advise me. I can’t ask him to stop calling me or visiting me. He once told me about his wife having similar problem with our friendship too. We are just normal friends with no string attached.
Do I call both families together to resolve it or ignore the threat from my wife.
Thanks so much for taken your time to read.